Your daughter with Same Sex Attraction

October 12, 2021


My daughter has embraced a lesbian lifestyle what can I do as a parent to help her out of it?


In regards to your daughter who has embraced the lifestyle of lesbianism, there is a diabolical component to this lifestyle, here is some info and recommendations.

Listen to this video so that you can understand how we got to this point in our country where sexual immorality has exploded especially amongst our young people. Levels of Spiritual Warfare’ by Fr Chad Ripperger listen from 32:22 – 36:14. This is a vicious & strategic attack by satan.

People with same sex attraction may claim that they were born that way – NOT TRUE.

Dr John R. Riggs journal article The Health Risks of Gay Sex (2002) states on p.9 “Research designed to prove that gays and lesbians are ‘born that way’ has come up “empty,” there is no scientific evidence that being gay or lesbian is genetically determined.”

American Psychological Association Changes Tune on Genetic Nature of Homosexuality (No Homosexual Gene Found) “There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles…” Full Story Here:

There is also a good book called: “The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction” (aka: Lesbianism) by Janelle Hallman which can be found on the Barnes and Noble website. Such good books are getting harder and harder to find because Amazon has banned books that tell the truth about how people can change and have changed their sexual orientation.

Fr Gabriel Amorth (Exorcist – Rome): Who can fall prey to the devil? “By grave hardening in sin - Judas Iscariot is the classic example. Many individuals who abandon themselves to sexual perversions, abortion, violence, alcoholism and drugs fall into this group.”

Fr Ripperger (Exorcist – Colorado): “knowing the doctrines of the Church will make you less likely to fall into error and be subject to the demons” The number 1 reason for diabolical affliction is because people do not know their Catholic faith (Kyle Clement, assistant to Fr Ripperger).  

Father Dermine (Exorcist in Italy since 1994) warned the Catholic faithful not to neglect religious education, which is the first bulwark against the advance of the devil and Satanism in society…in these times of confusion…the faithful have a duty to deepen their faith, to educate themselves Longtime Exorcist: Satanism Is Growing in Western Societies| National Catholic Register (

Hosea (4:6 RSV) the prophet said: “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.”

Sexually perverted practices (1 Thessalonians 4:3-7) and unforgiveness (Matt 6:14-15) are the common holding points that impedes the spiritually afflicted persons liberation progress. Because of these habitual sins the demons are allowed to remain.

The goal is to get her to come back to God and live in a state of sanctifying grace (a right relationship with God). God’s grace is powerful enough to heal us of diabolical affliction. We must realize it’s not that hard to do the will of Jesus Christ, its not hard to reorient our life back to God the Father through a life of virtue. What is virtue? HOLY HABITS. Father Dermine (Exorcist - Italy) – “Everyone can be a victim of evil. But it is obvious that it is more difficult that a person who tries to live an honest life in the grace of God become prey to the devil” Longtime Exorcist: Satanism Is Growing in Western Societies| National Catholic Register ( I have heard Fr Chad Ripperger in various lectures say: “God allows diabolical affliction for salvific purposes, to make the person and the family holier and draw them closer to Christ.”

Romans 8:28 (RSV) “We know that in everything God works for good with those who love him, who are called according to his purpose.”

Going on the offense:

There are many stories of people that had instantaneous conversions through contact with a sacramental like the famous Jewish atheist Alphonse Ratisbonne and his miraculous conversion through contact with the miraculous medal. Also the green scapular is known for bringing about the conversion of people. Give them to her and ask her that it would mean the world to you if she would place them somewhere in her house (preferably bedroom).

If you go and start sprinkling holy water and say prayers of deliverance in their house, undoubtedly your prayers will have some effect (cf. James 5:16) because you’re her father and a Deacon, but the demons will rage and retaliate against them as soon as you leave because their souls are still void of God and unclean and you don’t have the requisite authority over that house. You will stir the hornets nest of demons because they are not asking for your help nor are they seeking the Lord.

I am sure your already doing this protocol but this is just to encourage you to continue fasting for her once a week, offer Masses for her conversion, pray the rosary for her conversion daily, pray the chaplet of Divine Mercy for her daily conversion and continue to be good practicing Catholics so that she can see the 'Light of Christ' in you.

Demons fear people who live clean lives (cf. Matt 5:8 NAB) and ordered lives (cf. Colossians 2:5 NAB). They can only be resisted by faith (cf.1 Peter 5:8) and driven out by prayer and fasting (cf. Matt 17:21 D.R.).

Demons are driven out by "constancy" or "fidelity" to prayer and by one having authority such as a Priest or the Parents.

The ultimate goal is to reorder her intellectual faculties by helping her study her Catholic faith, her intellect has been darkened by her sin. The goal is to get her to confession so that she can reconcile with God through the sacraments. Emotional healing is short lived, what she needs is healing of the soul which is accomplished only through the sacraments.

Add this prayer everyday for her sometime throughout the day at a set time (demons hate monastic constancy & holy ritual): Raise your right hand: "I bless you ______ with the sign of the cross and may the Lord drive out any evil spirits from you and sent them to the foot of the cross so that Jesus Christ may do with them as He wills, in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit - Amen." If doesn’t have to be worded exactly like this but something similar, what’s important is that the parents verbally and intentionally bless your children.

As her Father, adding this prayer every single night is going to torment the demons that are afflicting her and will give her the grace to repent and have an interior conversion.

Your wife should be joining you in this prayer protocol but your the one that has spiritual authority over your house and children. Demons obey the proper authorities set up by God. Since your daughter no longer lives with you, you do not have authority over her like you had when she lived with you. But your prayers (and wife’s) are still very powerful still because of natural law and divine positive law which compels your daughter to “honor” you all the days of your life. Also, because your serious Catholics who live in a state of grace your prayers are very powerful (cf. James 5:16).

Include these prayers everyday intentionally for your children -,  you could also find them in my book "Lord Prepare My Hands For battle page 117, they are deliverance prayers to protect your family from demons. You and your wife should bless her every morning and every evening by saying while raising your right hand and making a cross in the direction of your children: "I bless you in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, Lord God protect my children from any evil spirits - Amen." It doesn’t have to be worded exactly like this but something similar, what’s important is that the parents verbal and intentionally bless your children.

Here is a longer form prayer: 

In the name of Jesus Christ and by the power given to me by God the Father Almighty through natural law. I bind any demon afflicting my daughter, any demon present to her known to my angel, her angel, St Michael or the Blessed Virgin Mary. I bind any demon manipulating images in her memory or imagination. I bind any demon attempting to disorder her appetites. Specifically, I bind any demons of rebellion, addictions, perversion and disorders of any kind. I bind any demons exploiting any emotional or psychological wounds she may have…

I pray that you grant ______ the grace to assent to the truths of the Roman Catholic Faith. I pray that _____ receive the grace to hunger and thirst for the Holy Eucharist. I pray that she desire purity of mind, body and soul. I pray that the light of Christ be upon her so that she sees herself as the Heavenly Father see’s her and that we see her as the Heavenly Father see’s her.

By the authority as head of household granted to me by God the Father Almighty through the natural law and divine positive law, I place the crown of thorns, saturated in the precious blood of Jesus Christ upon the head of any demon who dares to affect my daughter, any demon present to her, any lying spirits, any spirits of rebellion or addiction, any demons of any kind who try to afflict her. I place the crown of thorns upon your head the entire time you try to afflict her.

I bless my daughter ______ in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit – Amen.

Virgin Most Powerful pray for her and protect her.

St Joseph terror of demons pray for her and protect her.

St Maria Goretti (patron saint of purity & chastity) pray for her.

St Philomena (patron saint of young people) pray for her.

‘Prayers for Inner Healing’, (Fr Ripperger: Deliverance prayers for the Laity, p. 85). Pray this for your daughter everyday, modify it and insert her name:

Lord Jesus, Thou camest to heal our wounded and troubled hearts. I beg Thee to heal the torments that cause anxiety in my heart; I beg Thee, in a particular way, to heal all who are the cause of sin. I beg Thee to come into my life and heal me of the psychological harms that struck me in my early years and from the injuries that they have caused throughout my life. Lord Jesus, Thou knowest my burdens. I lay them all on Thy Good Shepherd's Heart. I beseech Thou – by the merits of the great, open wound in Thy Heart – to heal the small wounds that are in mine. Heal the pain of my memories, so that nothing that has happened to me will cause me to

remain in pain and anguish, filled with anxiety. Heal, O Lord, all those wounds that have been the cause of all the evil that is rooted in my life. I want to forgive all those who have offended me. Look to those inner sores that make me unable to forgive. Thou who camest to forgive the afflicted of heart, please, heal my own heart. Heal, my Lord Jesus, those intimate wounds that cause me physical illness. I offer Thee my heart. Accept it, Lord, purify it and give me the sentiments of Thy Divine Heart. Help me to be meek and humble. Heal me, O Lord, from the pain caused by the death of my loved ones, which is oppressing me. Grant me to regain peace

and joy in the knowledge that Thou art the Resurrection and the Life. Make me an authentic witness to Thy Resurrection, Thy victory over sin and death, Thy living presence among us. Amen.


Prayer to St Raphael the Archangel:

Glorious Archangel St Raphael, great prince of the heavenly court, you are illustrious for your gifts of wisdom and grace. You are a guide of those who journey by land or sea or air, consoler of the afflicted and refuge of sinners. I beg you, assist (N) in all his/her needs and in all the suffering of this life, as once you helped the young Tobias on his travels and Sarah from diabolic affliction, because you are the ‘Medicine of God’. I humbly pray to you to heal the many infirmities of (name) soul and the ills that afflict (name) body. I especially ask of you the favor (name it) and the grace of purity to prepare (name) to be the temple of the Holy Spirit – amen.


Don’t beat up on yourself. There is a disobedient spirit amongst young people all over the country.

2 Tim 3:1-5 (NAB) These are signs of the Last Days  

1 But understand this: there will be terrifying times in the last days.

2 People will be self-centered and lovers of money, proud, haughty, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, irreligious,

3 callous, implacable, slanderous, licentious, brutal, hating what is good,

4 traitors, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,

5 as they make a pretense of religion but deny its power. Reject them.


Pray these prayers often for yourself and your wife so that you don’t give in to despair.

Serenity Prayer:

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; taking as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His will; that I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him forever in the next. —Amen.


Closing Prayer of the Divine Mercy

(Another prayer to fight despair)

Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of compassion – inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us, that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will, which is Love and Mercy itself - Amen.